CAPSLOCK'SSTUCK

I am so sick of people constantly trying to put me in a box.

If I have too much sex, I’m a slut. If I don’t have sex with someone, I’m considered a “cock tease”, or I recall one time being called “lame”.

Someone called me “lame” because I choose not to have sex with them.

Let me make this clear - buying me a drink is not some unspoken, pre-coital agreement.

Who I choose to sleep with is MY CHOICE. You have no business in my sex life and no right calling me a slut based on empty assumptions.

I will not be pressured into doing something I don’t want to do. Nor will I be emotionally blackmailed through name-calling because you didn’t get your way.

And while we’re on this topic - how many people I have slept with isn’t an indicator of the kind of person I am, thank you very much.

Just because I enjoy having sex, doesn’t mean you get to get all self-righteous and start saying I’m a whore because I’ve slept with more than one person.

Stop reducing me down to my sexuality and sex-life. I am more than what is between my legs.